How To Be A Great Lover
Can you really tell me what a great lover is? Perhaps you think you are one already but what criteria are you using to judge? I am talking about a bunch more than the number of notches you may have on your “gun”.
Sad thing is most men are not really all that tuned in to what makes a great lover. What’s even more sad is that most men certainly would want to be regarded as one. Clearly when this desire is based on some benchmark such as sexual prowess or some “macho” definition, the chances of becoming truly a great lover will remain in the dim and distant future.
Old hat it may be but just think back in history. Who were regarded as a great lover? Why were they regarded as a great lover?
So what is it that will make a woman sigh, go all weak at the knees (just thinking about it) and tell her best friend all about you as soon as she can after the first time you make love? What is it that will make you so appealing and successful?
If I asked you if you liked women, what would you say? Point is I am not asking you if you such as having sex with women. Do you REALLY such as women? If you do then you have a gigantic head (no pun intended) start. Why?
Stupidly we permit ourselves to get accustomed to the more masculine watch of women through comedians, jokes, cartoons, discussions in bars and so on. If you happen to be this type, sorry mate, you have a whole lot of learning to do. As soon as you get the message, treat women as an equal, actually genuinely such as women, then women will genuinely such as you – one more process to being a great lover.
Kind of leading on from the past point, if you do such as women, you will get it a whole lot easier to listen to them. I know great lovers are experts at using their mouths and tongues – attempt becoming an expert using your ears. Women want to be listened to.
Maybe it is the equal partner thing. Maybe it is because women want to feel that they are actually communicating with their partner or with their date. Look at it this way, do not you want your date to make you feel special? Well c’mon reciprocate. Make the woman you are with feel she is important (not because of her body), make her feel she is special through focusing on her and truly listening to her.
This leads to your partner or date being a bunch more relaxed and this feeling most definitely will lead to much better sex and take you a couple of steps closer to graduating as a great lover.
Being a great lover is not that difficult!
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